交友APP與人肉市場幾乎劃上等號
Gay Social Networking Apps = Meat Markets?
在充斥各種交友APP軟體中，有位比較娘的同志朋友問我，大多數的交友條件中，都說明喜熊、喜猴、偏1、偏0、不分等等。但我就是看起來斯文，就相對比較"娘"，常常丟個訊息都是沒有回應，或者在Profile上面大剌剌寫著：拒C、拒娘等用詞，難道娘就該死嗎？
An effeminate friend once told me most gay social networking apps users indicate their preferences in their profiles for the bearish or the slim type, for top or btm. He, in comparison, has a more effeminate demeanor. In the apps where most users declare resistance to sissy guys, he usually has no chance of getting any reply to his messages.
沒見到面的互動 反應更加直接
Anonymity Exacerbates Hostility
對於這樣子的話語，站在朋友立場，當然替朋友抱委屈和不捨，也不禁令我想到一個問題：已經屬於弱勢族群的同志團體，對外常宣稱愛不分你我，我們都平等，希望得到尊重等等美好理念。然而對自己都是同志族群而言，在許多"自己人"的場合之中，也到處充滿歧視以及不平等。
Hearing his complaints, as a friend, I naturally hold grievances for him, but this also made me think about the problem. As a minority group, gay men advocate to the outside world that love is all the same and that we are all equal in love. However, there seems to exist discrimination against each other for the gay community.
雖說交友的確是種選擇，也必定有外貌優劣、身高體重、個性強弱的分別及喜好，也無法像104人力銀行有法律規定，不可因性別、種族、年齡等等限制，可最起碼給彼此尊重。可以婉轉表達，不要再傷到我們的玻璃心的娘娘們囉！
It’s true that friendship is a choice and that everyone has their own preferences in terms of the looks and physique types as well as the personalities. But the least we could do is to show respect to each other. We can respectfully and politely decline the friend requests from those that might not be our type.
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